"Your Love's Got Me Looking So Crazy Right Now..."
-Crazy in Love, Beyoncé
In honor of Valentine's Day and the opening of 50 Shades of Grey, let's explore our sixth sense and learn how using it can lead us to being so crazy in love. Using our sixth sensual sense; imagination, fantasy, instinct can heighten our sensuality and deepen our relationships.
First of all, fantasy is a normal and healthy part of all of our lives. Children adore fantasy stories because it helps them with concepts of good and evil, right and wrong. They use their imagination to play in worlds unknown to them. They create every moment as they please, and use their instincts to stop at discomfort. Adults respond the same way, identifying with various Archetypes that give us a glimpse of our own personalities.
Let's stop pretending that we don't like a little sexual fantasy now and then too. The book, and now movie, 50 Shades of Grey would not have sold millions if we weren't so interested or a little bit curious.
When in comes to our intimate relationships, fantasy introduces variety. Our brains stop obsessing for a moment about what our bodies look like, or if what we are doing is "right." Instead, we focus on what we secretly covet and desire to be played out. We might try on an alter ego or ask our partners to try one on. We use our instincts to understand how far we'd like to push our edges.
In our attempt to awaken all of our senses; touch, taste, smell, hear, see, we must also exercise our sense of fantasy to be exceptional lovers.
Exceptional lovers understand how to fully give with pleasure, and how to fully receive with pleasure. They are 100% present and aware. They allow their partners to feel safe enough to surrender, to enjoy, and to play. They spice things up with a little variety.
This Valentine's Day, give yourself the gift of being the lover you've always wanted to be. This means stretching your boundaries and exploring the secret fantasies you have. A huge population of women have already proven to be curious about a little kink based on the popularity of trashy novels (50 Shades grossed 1.5 BILLION dollars in sales in 2010!), and pole dancing is practically the new Hip Hop (a pole goes up in a studio every twelve hours somewhere in the world according to United Pole Artists USA). So why not turn on your inner stripper for the evening and give your partner (or yourself) a little tease?
The A-B-C's of Strip Tease is easy as 1-2-3.
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When you enjoy every moment of your strip tease, your lover will also. Your lover will be so crazy in love and honored by the exquisite unveiling of the most precious gift that is you. Happy Valentine's Day!
Uh Oh, Uh Oh, Uh Oh, Uh Oh....No, No, No.
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